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My philosophy: Life is an electric dream.

Blue electric wires connected to a panel in a dark setting.

One of the ways we check for life is to check for a heart beat.  That heart beat is an electrical pulse that contracts the muscles of the heart in order to circulate our blood.  Without that electrical movement, our heart does not beat and our body stops.  


Electrical pulses can be seen in everything that grows in our world.  Plants, animals and ourselves need a pulse of electricity in order to flourish.  Every crystal starts with an electrical charge and a pattern.


Electricity and magnetism are the building blocks of our universe.  In this flow of cosmic electrons, we exist.  This is what I believe people are feeling when they say things like “the energy in the house,” or “the energy of that person.”  Life is more than what we can process with our technical instruments and some of us are more sensitive to that flow than others.

Blue electric wires connected to a panel in a dark setting.

Don Miguel Ruiz wrote a book in 1997 that shaped my entire way of thinking and being.  It’s called The Four Agreements.  In his book he explains the four philosophic pillars of the Toltec couture and how they influence our existence in our collective dream we call reality.   


When we are asleep, we are the creators of our dreams.  Our minds look at the day before, the stresses, the joys, the hopes and fears, and it builds a place of reflection.  When we’re awake, we do the same thing but more slowly and with different tools, and of course, with everyone else currently in the world.  


The science and research that has gone into examining how our thoughts and expectations influence our reality is vast.  Suffice it to say, our minds have been proven to shape the world around us, even if in small amounts.  The placebo effect is a perfect example of this influence.  

Life is an Electric Dream

Be Impeccable with Your Word

Don't Take Anything Personally

Don't Take Anything Personally

What you say has power, both to yourself and to those that hear your words.  Words create actions and actions change lives.  To be impeccable with your words is to tread carefully with what you say and to accept the reality they may create.  Do you know your perfect state?  

Don't Take Anything Personally

Don't Take Anything Personally

Don't Take Anything Personally

We can only truly know and control ourselves.  We know the life we’ve lived from inside ourselves, but we can’t know someone else’s experience from inside them.  This means we can’t fully understand their motives for doing anything.  If we take things they say or do personally, we are agreeing with their words and actions.  Is that what we want?

Don't Make Assumptions

Don't Take Anything Personally

Don't Make Assumptions

Ask questions.  Assumptions are conclusions we come to based on our life experiences.  Making assumptions about other people means you’re making conclusions with only part of the information.  If you ask questions, you will have more information and can create more harmonious environments with other people.  Do you have a question?

Always Do Your Best

Don't Take Anything Personally

Don't Make Assumptions

You can’t do better than your best.  And your best changes from day to day. If you can hold yourself to this standard, you can forgive yourself for most things, and forgiveness is important for being able to breath deeply.  We all have an internal judge.  When we know that we are always striving to be the best version of ourselves, our in

You can’t do better than your best.  And your best changes from day to day. If you can hold yourself to this standard, you can forgive yourself for most things, and forgiveness is important for being able to breath deeply.  We all have an internal judge.  When we know that we are always striving to be the best version of ourselves, our internal judge has nothing to condemn us for because we can’t do better than we can do in that moment.  Can you forgive yourself?

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz, copyright 1997, Amber-Allen Publishing


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